Finding Your Track: The Power of Therapy and Connection
- Michael Fidler
- Nov 19, 2024
- 2 min read

This week, I want to start with what I believe is the most crucial step in any journey of recovery: getting your mind in the right place. For me, that meant diving into psychological and group therapy. It’s not always easy, but let me tell you—being honest with your therapist, your doctors, and, most importantly, yourself can change everything.
Let It Out
Bottling up your thoughts and emotions keeps you stuck. I’ve been there. I spent so much time at home, isolating myself, because my life had veered off the track I thought I was supposed to be on. You know the one: the 9-to-5 job, happy hours, weekends filled with fun and friends. That was the main track, and when I found myself on a different one, I felt lost.
Suddenly, the routine I’d worked so hard to achieve was gone, and with it went the connections I’d built. Coworkers stopped dropping by, friends seemed to drift away, and I was left wondering how to fit into a world that was still rushing by on that main track.
The Real Cost of Time
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that time is incredibly precious—and once it’s gone, you can’t get it back. I wasted so much of it staying stuck, convincing myself that life off the main track wasn’t worth exploring. But here’s the truth: there’s a whole new track out there, and it’s just as vibrant and full of opportunities.
Finding My People
Therapy was my first step toward embracing this new reality. Group therapy, especially, showed me that I wasn’t alone. There were others walking similar paths, people who understood what it felt like to lose their routine and sense of direction. Through sharing our stories, we found support and encouragement.
My doctors and therapists became my guides, helping me adjust to life on this new track. They reminded me that while my journey might look different now, it could still be filled with joy, discovery, and connection.
A World Full of Possibilities
Here’s the thing: with over 8 billion people on this planet, there’s no shortage of potential connections waiting to be made. Life on this new track isn’t lesser; it’s just different. And in many ways, it’s just as exciting.
Through therapy and the support of others, I’ve learned to embrace my new reality. I’ve met incredible people, discovered new passions, and realized that the possibilities are endless if I’m willing to step outside and explore.
Keep Moving Forward
If you’re feeling stuck or isolated, take that first step. Reach out to a therapist, join a support group, or simply talk to someone you trust. Let it all out, and be honest about where you are. Because the sooner you start moving, the sooner you’ll discover that life on your new track can be just as fulfilling and joyful as the one you thought you’d lost.
We may not get back the time we’ve lost, but we can make the most of the time we have. So let’s get out there, meet new people, and embrace the journey ahead.
Your track might be different, but trust me—it’s still worth the ride
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