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Adapted Adventurer


When We Forget Love (And How Life Reminds Us)
When We Forget Love (And How Life Reminds Us) By Mike – Ondaroof I didn’t arrive at these thoughts sitting on a mountain, or in a quiet cabin, or after retiring with a big savings account and a clean bill of health. I arrived here in a wheelchair, with a body that doesn’t always cooperate, after watching my dad decline, after talking with elders on hospice who suddenly see life with crystal clarity — just when they have the least time left to use it. If you’d known me years a
Michael Fidler
Nov 15, 20256 min read


🌳 Seeds of the Future – Blog Series: Post #1
“We Are Standing on Their Shoulders” A Reflection by Mike – aka Ondaroof “The greatest use of a life is to spend it for something that...
Michael Fidler
Aug 3, 20252 min read


“Chasing Fireflies: What My Grandson Taught Me About Living Again”
For the last few years, I’ve been living in a tunnel—one lined with appointment reminders, medication schedules, and constant reminders...
Michael Fidler
Jul 17, 20252 min read


“Wired for Music: Why Our Brains Dance to the Beat”
This week, I’m taking a breather from the heavier reflections to explore something that’s always been a big part of my life: music....
Michael Fidler
May 9, 20252 min read


’m Not Cured — But I’m Living Again (And That Changes Everything)
By Mike – The Adapted Adventurer This isn’t a cure story.It’s not even a comeback story.It’s a clarity story. Because for years, I lived...
Michael Fidler
May 4, 20252 min read


Who’s Driving This Thing Anyway?
The Starfish Story A man was walking along a beach after a storm, and the shore was littered with thousands of starfish, washed up and...
Michael Fidler
May 2, 20252 min read


3 Gentle Ways to Get Moving When Fatigue Feels Too Big
3 Gentle Ways to Get Moving When Fatigue Feels Too Big If you're reading this and nodding along—but still thinking, "How do I even...
Michael Fidler
Apr 24, 20252 min read


“The Fix I Refused: How Movement Saved Me from the Fatigue Spiral”
“The Fix I Refused: How Movement Saved Me from the Fatigue Spiral” By Mike, The Adapted Adventurer "You're not lazy. You're not broken....
Michael Fidler
Apr 24, 20252 min read


“Awake Now: Moving Through Pain, Rising in Love”
“Awake Now: Moving Through Pain, Rising in Love” By Mike, The Adapted Adventurer This week, something shifted in me—and I don’t think...
Michael Fidler
Apr 20, 20252 min read


Looking In, Missing Out: When Illness Blinds Us to the Pain of Those Who Love Us
Living with chronic illness can feel like being stuck in a storm—with wind, rain, and uncertainty hitting from all directions. You focus...
Michael Fidler
Apr 18, 20252 min read


Stuck in Traffic, Every Day: What Chronic Illness Feels Like
My Commute Never Ends: The Daily Grind of MS By Mike Some days, I get frustrated. Really frustrated. It’s not just the symptoms—it’s what...
Michael Fidler
Apr 13, 20252 min read


11 Years, 1 Journey, and a Whole Lot of Snow
Last week, Facebook did that thing it does—bringing back memories you weren’t quite ready for, but somehow needed. It showed me photos...
Michael Fidler
Apr 8, 20252 min read


To Walk or to Roll: Redefining Strength in the Face of Change
There are days when I stand at a literal crossroads—my hand resting on the back of a chair, eyes fixed on the hallway ahead—and I ask...
Michael Fidler
Mar 28, 20253 min read


The Constant of Change: A Farewell to My Therapist
“This too shall pass.” It’s a phrase we’ve all heard, but it carries so much more weight when you’ve lived through enough seasons of life...
Michael Fidler
Mar 21, 20252 min read


It’s Not About Me—It’s About the Message
I’ve never written to win awards or to be named Writer of the Year. That was never the goal. Writing, for me, started as therapy—an...
Michael Fidler
Mar 19, 20252 min read


Vintage Empathy: A Letter to My Past Self
Vintage Empathy: A Letter to My Past Self Hey, you. The version of me standing at the edge of a major life change, heart racing, mind...
Michael Fidler
Mar 14, 20253 min read


Rolling Into Independence: My Experience With the Zeen
There are certain moments in life when you realize just how much something was missing—until you get it. For me, that moment came last...
Michael Fidler
Mar 7, 20253 min read


Living History: When You Realize You’re the History Lesson
I was just trying to get my leg stretched out—who knew I’d end up feeling like a walking history book? Let me explain. One of the joys...
Michael Fidler
Feb 28, 20253 min read


Redefining Success: What Does a 'Good Life' Really Look Like?
For most of our lives, we are taught that success means achievement, wealth, status, and stability. Society conditions us to believe that...
Michael Fidler
Feb 21, 20253 min read


Through Sickness and Health: The Untold Story of Caregiving in Relationships
In any relationship, the vows of “through sickness and health” are easier said than lived. When chronic illness or disability enters a...
Michael Fidler
Jan 31, 20253 min read
"Embrace the journey, adapt with courage, and discover new horizons."
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